Going through divorce during the holidays is hard. Traditions change, schedules get complicated, and emotions run high. A plan can help you and your children get through the season.

Plan the Schedule Early

If you have a court order, follow it. If you don’t have one yet, try to agree on a holiday schedule in writing well before the day arrives. That way, children know what to expect.

Keep Children Out of the Conflict

Children should enjoy the holidays without feeling caught between parents. So avoid arguing in front of them, and don’t ask them to choose where to spend the day.

Be Careful With Money

Divorce often changes your finances. In addition, large gifts or new debts during the case can raise questions later. Set a holiday budget and stick to it.

Watch What You Post

Holiday photos and posts can show up in court. Therefore, think before you share, especially about a new relationship, parties or spending.

Take Care of Yourself

Lean on friends and family. Also, consider starting a new tradition of your own. It’s normal for this season to feel different.

Don’t Make Big Decisions in a Hurry

Avoid signing agreements or making major moves just to get through the holidays. Instead, take the time to understand your options. For more about divorce during the holidays and after, see my divorce and child custody pages.

Talk With a Jonesboro Lawyer

You can call the office at 870.525.2191. Our phones are answered 24 hours a day, and Sara Beth or I will call you back. You can also request a consultation online. Consultations are free and usually last about 30 minutes, and I’ll explain how fees work for your kind of case before you decide anything.

This post is general information about Arkansas law, not legal advice for your situation.